Breakups suck so much, omgggg…
It really can be one of the most emotionally and physically draining things to ever happen to you. When you’re so in love with someone, and that love finally dies, it will crush you like nothing else will. Especially if you’re the one who is still madly in love. But it isn’t just your personal life it can affect. It’ll spread to work life, friendships. Everything will take a crushing hit as your heart does.
Good new is – there are ways to get over it, and the pain you feel won’t last forever. To try and help you through the worst of it, here are some ways in which a breakup can ruin your life and how to get over it.
If it is a marriage breakup that you’re going through, this is probably going to hit you a little harder. Even if you weren’t married, you were maybe renting a flat or had a mortgage together, it is really going to hit your finances. A lot of people get into a hell of a lot of trouble money wise when a breakup happens. Going from living off two incomes to one can be the most stressful thing you’ll ever do, and it’ll often lead to debts racking up and many payments due. As if you weren’t stressed enough?!
Don’t let it get out of hand, there are debt settlement companies that can help you begin to manage everything. As hard as it may be, you’re going to need to move back into your parents for a while whilst you get money sorted. Don’t try and rent or cover the mortgage on your own, you’re only going to end up in even more trouble. The move will only me temporary, and it’ll help to surround you with the people in your life who are going to make things better.
Emotionally you’re going to take a big hit. It is easily going to be one of the things you’ll cry most over in your life, and at the beginning it’ll seem there is so way to get over it. But we’re here to tell you there is. Use the first week to get all your crying out. Don’t be ashamed to break down every now and then, it is part of the healing process.
The second week is operation sort yourself out. You need to pick yourself, realise there’s nothing you can do about it, and surround yourself with the best people who are going to make you happy. Your friends are there for this stage. Go and have girly nights out, and try not the be alone as much as possible whilst you’re healing. Your parents will also be the comfort blanket you desperately need, especially within the first week. Mums know best as well, so don’t be afraid to pour your heart out to her. It’ll all help to mend it sooner rather than later.
So there you have it, two areas in which a breakup can ruin your life. But with the ways we’ve given you, you should be able to mend your broken heart in no time.
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