According to a businessman.
I came across an interesting article and couldn’t help but share it with our readers. I believe that women should be feminine, preferably not have to work (or if they do work, it should be something that makes them REALLY happy) and look put together, but this guy takes it to a whole new level. He says that women shouldn’t strive to be successful! Strangely, I kind of get where he’s coming from, even though it might sound misogynistic (especially to the North-American crowd).
Here’s what he has to say:
“Believe me when I say – a real man will never truly value the books you have written, the movies you have directed, the fundraisers you have organized or the countless gold medals you won at the Olympics. And if you happen to meet a man who seems to care about these things, run! He’s probably interested in your financial status above anything else in your arsenal.
A real man values his woman for her femininity and elegance, her care and tenderness, her soft skin and sweet smell, her luscious curves and pink lips, her long hair and beautiful posture… or the way she looks in high heels with her hair flowing in the wind – she’s a goddess to him. He wants to admire her forever!
Women who work as hard as men turn into sexless creatures. Their eyes no longer spark with excitement – they’re tired. Their appearance says, “Leave me alone!” They’re no longer playful. In my eyes, they give up on themselves as women and turn into corporate machines with back aches and indigestion.
You see, when a man works hard – it makes him look good. He gains some white hairs, a few wrinkles – it adds credibility to the whole “masculine look.” When a man works his ass off to achieve his career goals, he is happy, confident and oozes sex-appeal. He’s full of energy! Challenges turn us into the best versions of ourselves. We become warriors. It’s a whole different story when it comes to women. Hard work does not do much good to them.
You might ask, “What should a real woman do with her life if not strive for success in the corporate word?” I’ll tell you what – live gracefully. Sleep, eat healthy food, visit spa and hair salons – take care of yourself. Visit art expositions and cultural events, gain new knowledge, learn new languages! There are so many things a woman can do to live peacefully. Be the woman that inspires her man to conquer more and not the one who brings stress into the bedroom. Don’t compete with your man, let him lead. Be that sexy vixen you’ve always wanted to be and your husband/boyfriend will treat you like a princess for the rest of your life.”
Author – Alex Prosviryakov
Main photo – weheartit